Like the sannyasi who meditates in the cave all alone to abolish anger, then goes down to the marketplace and finds himself immediately angered by the other people, I am away from my two and a half year old for a week and think I am ready to deal with her. I am almost immediately impatient with her being on another time zone. I find myself getting irritated, making her tense, and making her tantrums last twice as long.
HELP! What happened to all of my yogic patience? I want to say that it is because I am trying to teach her how to act in front of her grandparents, but the reality is that whenever I have my own agenda, ie., getting to the park with enough time between now and nap to really enjoy the swings, I get uptight.
Wow! That says a lot about me, I thought it was just when I wanted to get everyone off to school or I didn't want to dawdle on six flights of stairs. Even when it's time to have fun, I am totally uptight. I have years of yoga practice to do in order to learn how to be present and to not be so uptight. The problem is that somehow I have to accomplish all of this within a few months so that I don't continue to adversely affect my daughters.
Om Mane Padme Hum. The jewel is in the lotus. Out of the mud grows a beautiful and pristine flower.